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- (1982) Died:Bess Truman
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- TIME--The Weekly Newsmagazine--1982 Highlights
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- <source>Time Magazine</source>
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- November 1, 1982
- A Lady in the White House
- Bess Truman: 1885-1982
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- <p> Her husband called her "the boss" and "my chief adviser." But
- months after Harry Truman became President in 1945, First Lady
- Bess went shopping in Washington's big department stores and no
- one recognized her. That was the way she wanted it, and to a
- surprising extent that was the way it stayed.
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- <p> Bess Truman, who died last week at 97, went to Washington a
- Mid-western housewife who had lived all her life under the same
- roof with her mother. She did not smoke or drink or swear. She
- likes Charles Dickens and Sir Walter Scott but thought modern
- novels "a waste of time." After her husband succeeded Franklin
- D. Roosevelt in the White House, Bess burned a stack of Harry's
- love letters. "But think of history," Harry protested. "I have,"
- she said.
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- <p> The fifth generation of a prosperous family in Independence,
- Mo., Elizabeth Wallace Truman grew up a blue-eyed, blond-curled
- tomboy. She could bat a ball as far as any boy in the
- neighborhood and was better than any at mumblety-peg. She met
- her future husband when he was six and she was five, and he
- always said he fell in love at that moment. They did not marry
- until 29 years later, partly because her mother opposed this boy
- of no "family" and sparse prospects. Engaged just before Harry
- left for World War I, they wed on his return in 1919. The
- Trumans stayed married for 53 years, through a failed business,
- shabby local politics and Harry's sudden rise to the leadership
- of the postwar world, which Bess found the greatest burden of
- all.
- </p>
- <p> She always insisted that her husband's eminence had nothing to
- do with her. She did not give press conferences. She refused to
- sit for her official White House portrait, and it had to be done
- from a photograph. Only intimate friends were allowed into the
- family quarters. She preserved every protocol and precedent
- established before her, not out of any instinctive formality but
- because she would not rock the boat.
- </p>
- <p> Mrs. Truman figured in two major controversies: Harry's putting
- her on his Senate payroll in 1941 at $4,500 a year, almost half
- his Senate salary; and her acceptance while First Lady of a gift
- freezer that was linked to an alleged influence-peddling
- scandal. Neither issue did her much harm. During a Senate probe
- of the Democratic freezer flag, the highly partisan Republican
- Joseph R. McCarthy called her one of the "finest things about
- the White House" and declared her above suspicion.
- </p>
- <p> Stiff and shy in crowds, she could be slyly witty in private.
- When her husband was contemplating the propriety of their having
- dinner in a Rome restaurant that was once the villa of
- Mussolini's mistress Carla Petacci, Mrs. Truman settled the
- matter: "Well, after all, she won't be there." Bess endured
- thousands of teas, receptions and galas. Mobbed by delegates and
- newsmen at the 1944 Democratic Convention that nominated Truman
- for Vice President, she lamented, "Are we going to have to go
- through this all the rest of our lives?" Eight and a half years
- later, after a crowd of 15,000 greeted the retired President and
- First Lady on their return to Independence, she said to her
- husband, "If this is what you get for all those years of hard
- work, I guess it was worth it."
- </p>
- <p> She was always the lady. When Harry said Texans who voted for
- Richard Nixon could "go to hell," she telephoned and told him,
- "If you can't talk politer than that in public, you come right
- home." But she kept her views private. When asked on national
- TV in 1955 if she had anything to say about politics
- "specifically or in general," she shot back, "Not in either
- category, thank you." Last and first, a lady.
- </p>
- <p>-- William A. Henry III
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